Selamat Hari Raya!
And so this is my 1st eventful hari raya with my husband. How was it? Very eventful! Yup celebrating it for the 1st time at another house. Nope I did not cry. In fact I enjoyed it very much. Told Andy that I don't think I am ready to move to a new house all by ourselves. Yes you heard me right, I think I enjoy staying with my MIL. For the 1st time ever also, I followed my MIL for Aidilfitri prayers. Very syahdu la. Cause, for this raya, there's alot of firsts for me. Heh!
On to a different thing now, why is it that we all are prejudiced towards men who earn less than their wife? Earning less than their wife does not equate to them being less responsible towards their family. Afterall husbands are the family heads.
Why is it that only during Hari Raya we ask for forgiveness? Why not on any other days when we have realised that we have made mistakes? You mean only during Raya then you ask for forgiveness for all the mistakes you've done for the past year? And then repeat the same mistakes the following day? Does that make us hypocrites then?
Are parents necessarily right? Are they always right? Are they never wrong? I am confused. What are the responsibilities of married women towards their own parents ? Who's their first priority? Husband or own parents? High expectations on children will make children feel as if a huge boulder has been put on their shoulders. Soon, that boulder will become a burden they carry throughout their life. And soon, that boulder will also turn to become a disappointment for the parents. Is that fair then? Oh heck, life is unfair.
I am not in the right state of mind now. Things are pretty awful for me now. As I say, life is unfair. What do you expect? I am now hitting the bumps, potholes, cracks and whathaveyous in my journey of life. Thus, I am badly bruised now. Will return when I am partially recovered.
Till then!
